Jeg Snublet og Falt: Hva Gjør Jeg Nå?
Ingeborg Heldal, the 52‑year‑old chief editor of Norway’s flagship women’s magazine KK, has launched a new love column by opening up about the relationship that has defined her personal life for the past quarter‑century.
How a literal tumble sparked a lasting romance
Helded recalls that, twenty‑five years ago, she “fell literally pladask” for Halvor Haugen, the man she would later marry and raise their son Håkon with. The anecdote is a vivid reminder that love can begin in the most unexpected moments.
Inside the interview: love, loss, and everyday romance
When asked about her first crush, Helded describes it as “totalt altoppslukende” and notes that the intensity “ended not well.” She later reflects that the most cherished moments of love now come from simple, daily gestures: a 1.92‑metre‑tall son’s hug, and a Friday evening when her husband cooks, turns up loud music and dances in the kitchen.
Halvor may not call himself romantic, but his actions speak loudly. During a visit to a vintage shop, he shared her excitement over an Italian porcelain lamp shaped like Marie Antoinette on a gold carriage. Though they left it on display, weeks later it appeared under their Christmas tree bearing her name—a detail Helded calls “romantic.”
She also recounts a clumsy yet endearing attempt to flirt in a bar twenty‑five years ago, where she tripped over a sack, spilled beer and turned the moment into a “romantic comedy‑like” memory.
Advice for a drama‑free love life
Helded’s counsel to her younger self is simple: “Den dramafrie kjærligheten er alltid den beste. Alltid!” She urges readers to make active, daily choices, to be generous, to let minor irritations slide, and to “kiss each other every day.”
She demonstrates love through hugs, frequent affirmations, and the occasional thoughtful gift.
Frequently Asked Questions
How long have Ingeborg Heldal and Halvor Haugen been together?
They have been together for more than twenty years, having met at Journalism School and later marrying, with a 15‑year wedding anniversary celebrated in 2026.
What does Ingeborg consider the most romantic gesture Halvor has made?
She highlights the vintage‑shop episode where Halvor shared her excitement over an Italian porcelain lamp and later placed it under their Christmas tree with her name on it.
What practical advice does Ingeborg give for keeping love alive?
She advises making active, daily choices, being generous, overlooking small irritations, avoiding unnecessary arguments, and kissing each other every day.
What moments from your own love story have shaped the way you view romance today?