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Lelde Dreimane and Artūrs Bernāts are living apart with minimal communication following disputes over Dreimane’s acting career. According to Dreimane in the reality show Laimīgie laiku(s) neskaita, the conflict stems from Bernāts’ inability to accept her professional roles and a breakdown in personal trust.
Why did Lelde Dreimane and Artūrs Bernāts separate?
Professional boundaries caused the primary rift. Dreimane stated that Bernāts struggled with her work, specifically a romantic scene involving a kiss with actor Andris Buli and a theater performance where she wore provocative lingerie. Bernāts claimed he was not informed about these scenes in advance.

Dreimane noted that she did not expect these professional requirements to cause conflict. She eventually felt uncomfortable in the relationship and suggested they live separately as an initial warning sign.
What happened during their final conflicts?
The tension peaked before a theater performance. Dreimane attempted to ease a conflict with a joke, but the situation worsened. Bernāts sent her a text message stating, “Don’t come home tonight. I’ve had enough of you,” which Dreimane described as an “explosion.”
Additional friction arose over material gifts. During a visit with friend Marita Liepiņa, Dreimane questioned if Bernāts had asked for a gift back after an argument. Liepiņa described the act of reclaiming a gift as “bad manners” and “child’s play.”
What is the current status of their relationship?
The couple currently lives apart. Dreimane clarified that while no one has officially “put a period” on the relationship, they are in a period of “questions and answers.” She described their current communication as “very minimal.”
Dreimane explained that she refused to change her identity to become a “Mārupe housewife.” She compared Bernāts to a “leaking vessel,” suggesting he must fix himself before he can be filled with love and attention.
What happens next for the couple?
Because Dreimane stated that no official end has been declared, the couple could potentially reconcile if Bernāts addresses the personal issues she identified. However, given the “minimal communication” and fundamental differences regarding her career, a permanent split is a possible next step.
Frequently Asked Questions
- Why did Artūrs Bernāts object to Lelde’s acting? He was unhappy with a kissing scene with actor Andris Buli and a stage performance in lingerie, claiming he wasn’t warned about them.
- What did Marita Liepiņa say about the relationship? Liepiņa stated that asking for a gift back after a fight is an “unrefined” action that shows “bad manners.”
- How did the couple meet? They met last summer on the reality show Randiņš ar divām.
Do you believe professional boundaries in acting should be negotiated with a partner beforehand?