Waarom Luc Appermont na begrafenis van Margriet Hermans niet naar de koffietafel ging
Luc Appermont skipped the post-funeral reception for singer Margriet Hermans on Wednesday, citing overwhelming emotion. According to Het Laatste Nieuws, Appermont attended the ceremony but chose to process the loss in silence with his husband, Bart Kaëll, rather than attending the gathering.
Why did Luc Appermont skip the reception?
Appermont stated that the emotions of the day were too intense to participate in the social portion of the event. “I didn’t go to Margriet’s coffee table on Wednesday, that was too heavy,” he told Het Laatste Nieuws.

He explained that he preferred to handle the grieving process privately with his spouse. Appermont noted his desire to process the event “in all silence, together with Bart.”
What was the significance of the funeral?
The service served as an emotional farewell for the singer, who held a long-standing presence in Flemish media. Attendees described the atmosphere as highly emotional.
For Appermont and Kaëll, the event prompted a discussion about the nature of existence during their drive home. Appermont recalled saying to Kaëll, “Godverdekke, how fast it can go, eh,” while reflecting on how quickly life can change.
What may happen next for those grieving?
The public acknowledgment of this loss could lead other figures in the Flemish media circle to share similar reflections on the fragility of life. It is possible that more individuals may choose private processing over traditional public receptions during future industry losses.
Observers may see a trend where public figures prioritize mental health and silence over social expectations during periods of bereavement.
Frequently Asked Questions
When did the funeral of Margriet Hermans take place?
The funeral occurred on Wednesday.
Why did Luc Appermont decide not to attend the “coffee table” reception?
He told Het Laatste Nieuws that the experience was “too heavy” and he wished to process the loss in silence with his husband.
Who accompanied Luc Appermont after the ceremony?
He was accompanied by his husband, Bart Kaëll.
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